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Thursday, May 17, 2012

The possibility of a female president in SA

Would you support it because you think it’s a good platform for sealing the deal on equality that men have been battling to bring affront. Think about it, what would it be like, for a woman, who is seen as weak, not man enough, good for being at home raising kids, doing house chores, running to the shops to fill her pantry just so the one who reels in the big fish never goes without.

Do you support iot because you thin k it’s a worthy cause, we are there at the conception of life, nurturers by nature, leaders by instinct, good listeners because we think what is said good enough to be heard, after all we raised the boys who are now leaders, we made them understand the infinity of life and the world, they that are successful are backed up by hard working women.

I know we have potential when I look at Ms. Naledi Pandor, her razor sharp wisdom, to say intellect would water it down, the eloquence in her words, well put, the grace of Mama Nkosazana Zuma, who embodies the spirit of humility, the fierceness of our not so loved Madam Helen Zille who makes of point of being heard we hope it shall be for the right reasons in future. We know how to behave before the public, we know not to air our laundry where all can see, well organized, we run our homes and lead in the work place, wherever you are, LEAD, we are born leaders. The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. I believe we have a valid, undeniable point, WE CAN lead, the combination of these women in one person exists if not we can collectively make it happen. YES WE CAN

Women are His Meal Tickets: Male Gold-diggers

Typical female gold-diggers are well-dressed and hangout at classy places trying to trap a wealthy man, they like hanging in Sandton, Melrose Arch & Rosebank; that’s where bo Juju hang out le bo Minister of Sports he hehehe I didn’t mention names. She knows she can’t even afford a sausage at Michelangelo Towers but you will find her there acting all busy on her Blackberry 8250. The typical male gold-digger is different and far more common. He is honest to a fault. He probably looks shabby; he eats terrible food; his job is terrible and he could get a better one, but he won't. His place looks like a dump or close. He spends a lot of time online, he’s the ish on Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, BBM you name them he’s there. He is happy to take walks with you in the park or woods, or be driven around in YOUR car to any shops, and of course he is glad to sleep with you especially without a condom, that’s how irresponsible he is. Then he says he loves you, and you fall in love with him. It usually doesn't take long believe me it doesn’t take long, Im talking from experience.
A woman's love is a mighty thing and the male gold-digger knows it. They know we are suckers for “love”, hone muroho ra u wana ari cha fareya he he he *translation: After sex we loose our mind* A good woman stands by her man, and he has tested you and knows you are good: you keep your promises, are faithful, take his side when he's under attack, love his kids, forgive him for all the bull he puts you through. You pay his way when he runs short of money. After that he is not at all commitment-shy. You two move in together, hoping for the rosey relationship, believe me its not gonna happen. It is not going to happen; instead the day you move in is the beginning of the end.
Gold digger are so damn good in bed, believe me he will satisfy you in bed. He can go on and on and on, he knows uri a satisfies woman is a generous woman. The next morning he’ll start pouring his heart about not having 1 2 3 then you will pay his way; they are strategic. The minute you give in to his demands he’ll go quiet for a few days, he thinks of you ONLY when he needs your money. Open your eyes girls.
Gold diggers drop hints that they're having trouble paying their bills, sometimes they might even ask you directly for a "loan" to tide them over. They know that you don't want to see them get an eviction notice, or get their car repossessed, and you're a good person who's in a position to help. But there's a difference between a gold digger and someone who's just fallen on bad times. What you should be looking for is if, despite their situation, this person is making poor financial decisions. Do they buy a brand new car with luxury features when they're struggling to pay rent? Many gold diggers know better than to ask you to fund their more luxurious tastes, at least in the beginning; they'll tap into your desire to help them afford the things they need (food, shelter, transportation) so that they can spend their own money on the things they want, believe me they go drinking from Friday till Sunday knowing very well you will cover the losses.  Gold diggers feel that they deserve to be treated well, and that includes knowing that someone is willing to spend money on them.
A gold digger is a needy individual that will take up a lot of your money, time and energy.

Watch yourself. It feels good to help people, whether you just helped someone avoid becoming homeless, or you're helping an wannabe artist or entrepreneur launch his or her career, but you have to be careful that you don't fall into a pattern where your help become the norm, so much so that without your financial assistance, the relationship would crumble. If you're the kind of person who has trouble saying "no", or who is intensely sympathetic and compassionate, you're more likely to bump into a gold digger. You might also face the feeling that this is one of the most attractive or fascinating people you've ever dated, and you don't want to ruin your chances, but don't be fooled by a good looking exterior. It could cost you.